Weight... Size... Shape....
We all deal with it. A lot of us struggle with it. Wether your overweight, the "right" weight or under weight. Everyone has a story, everyone is human and everyone goes through struggles.
Maybe your 350lbs and trying to lose weight, maybe you struggle to not eat the foods that aren't so good for your weight loss, or maybe you just hate working out, or maybe your 69 pounds and fighting to gain weight. Maybe your at a good weight but you want to tone your body. Maybe your just a person in the world like everyone else. Maybe just maybe if we stopped for a moment and stopped competing with one another, we could empower one another, we could encourage eachother and lift eachother up.
Maybe your not someone who's struggle, but maybe you know someone who is.. It's hard to be the person struggling, But it's also really hard to watch someone struggling and knowing there is nothing that anyone can do but them.
Maybe your overweight and you like your body, maybe your underweight and you like your body, maybe your at the "right" weight and you like your body. Does that make you coincided? No! Absolutely not. You are completely allowed to love yourself, your body and the image you see in the mirror. It doesn't make you "better" than anyone and it doesn't make you "worse" it makes you human. Just as the people who don't like their bodies, it doesn't make them any less of people. It also doesn't make them better either. We are all humans, were all equal. Is it so hard to empower and lift someone up? I feel like it takes a lot more energy to hate then to love.
I see a lot online about men only liking women with curves, or men don't like bones only dogs, I seen something today about how apparently if your skinny you think your better than everyone else...
So here is to all those people who think just because girls are skinny they think their better.
A lot of women don't choose to be skinny, a lot of women are naturally built that way, a lot of women have eating Disoders which causes them to loose weight and become very skinny. Such as myself.
Yes I am skinny, yes I am 95pounds. Do I feel like I'm better than anyone else? NO!!!!! Do I feel like I deserve more than anyone else? NO!!!!! Do I feel higher up than everyone else? NOOOOOO! Do I look down on bigger women? NOOOO! Do I think bigger women think they think their better than me ? NOOOO!
I didn't choose anorexia, I didn't choose to be skinny... So next time you want to judge someone because they are skinny, or bigger. Think twice.
If you were struggling and you needed to be uplifted and someone came over and told you how stupid and ugly you were and that you thought you were better than everyone else... You wouldn't feel very good, remember that next time you go to call someone down.
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